Before identifying the signs he’s a player or not, you need to understand what is a player doing? The player is a guy who only dates with you, so he makes sex with you and he is not taking interest in any other thing. He is flirting with so many women at the same time and never commit a serious relationship with someone.
If you are a woman and want to start a new relationship with a man before that you have to identify the signs he’s a player or not, otherwise, you feel cheated, and it’s not a good sign for your relationship.
As a woman, you have to remember that you have to be very careful while dating and starting a relationship with a man. No one wants that feel cheated by a man in a relationship, so you need to aware that whom you dating is he’s a player or a gentleman.
In this article, I am going to share with you some warnings which really help you to understand the signs he’s is a player or not.
He Overload Compliment to you:
Everyone likes to compliment if someone gives to you but the main thing is it is real and genuine. A player always gives you unnecessarily compliment you every time. Mostly he compliments about your looks, legs, boobs, and hips.
A player always gives you a flirty compliment related to your body parts and he easily trying flirty techniques to win over you. He is not interested to know you as a person but he more interested to know as you physically and sexually.
He Tries to going outside most if there is sex involved:
A player man generally avoids going outside with you but he always ready to going outside with you when there is a chance of physical touch and sex with you.
This type of man arranges a date with you when they want something from you. In general, when there is no chance to be physical with you, he planned a date with you but not come at the last moment.
He never shares his plan and future goals with you:
It is very important that in a starting phase of relationship or dating, a real man always share his plan and future goals with you, but a player never share any plan and future goals with you.
If he does not share his future plans and goals, its simplicity means that you are not in his mind, he just wants to spend some time with you as a time pass.
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He never invites you to meet his family:
If a man seriously thinking about you, then he definitively introduces you from his family and friends But a player man never invites you to meet his family and friends, it simply means he is not serious about a relationship, just want to spend some fun time with you.
If after some time of relationship, yet is never invite you to meet his family and when you ask a question about this, he gives you unwanted excuses. Also, ask about his opinion on what he thinking about their future.
If he doesn’t respond to you positively after a long time and now its time to go out of this fake relationship.
He avoids answering the question asked by you:
A serious man always ready to satisfy his women and try to make happy all the time but what can you do if a man never gives the right answer and avoid answering the question asked by you.
As a woman, you have to notice that if you starting a phase of dating or relationship and w man whom you dating you never satisfy you with an answer, and when you ask an important question related to your relationship, he change the topic, sometimes blank or avoid you.
It’s not good news for you, he is not interested in you and he is not honest with you. It shows that he is a player.
He never knows you more about him:
A real man never hides anything related to him, he always trusts you but a player never gives you more details about him, where he lives, what is doing for a living and he just meeting you secretly never want to meet you at a public place.
He never introduces you to his friends as a girlfriend and always avoids going together in the partner all these things really indicate that he is not sure about your relationship.
Now as a woman its time to think why is he always hides and avoids meeting you in a public place.
He tells you lies:
An honest man always tells you true things about him and respects you so much but a player never accepts that he is a real player and always tells lies to you.
He always aggressively defend himself when you trying to criticize him or point him as an accuse.
He never tells you what he doing, where he is going, when he will come back, and how he spends his time. He always trying to himself as a secret. This is not a good sign of a healthy relationship, it only shows that there is some issue in your problem.
He never interested to know more about you:
A man who is in a serious relationship always ready to know about everything which is related to you and he listen to you very carefully, whereas a man who never take you serious about you, never interested to know about yourself except he only shows interest in sexual and fun related things with you.
Whenever you talk about your future goals and other important things related to relationships, he does not respond to you positively. He constantly avoiding you to talk about the important matter but for any fun and party, he is always ready to join you.
He suddenly disappears without informing you:
In the early stage of dating and any relationship, people do not know about each other but what happens its a long time of relationship, when men disappear most of the time without informing you and never told you when he will come back.
A man who really loves you or having a serious relationship with you always informs you whenever he has some important work and going away from you but a player never gives a clue about him when he going away from you and when he will come.
When he reappears in front of you, he never shares the valid reason why he suddenly disappears and he always tries to make you fool.
He avoids to spent holidays with you:
A serious person always ready to spend some quality time with you during holidays or vacation but a player avoids spending holidays with you. He never shares you from how many girls he flirting and he never wants to understand your feelings and emotions.
He never wants a serious relationship with you, maybe that s why he avoids spending holidays with you or maybe he prefers to spend his holiday with another girl with whom they have a serious relationship.
Trying to impress you with confident:
A player is very professional in making false promises and impresses a girl with his confidant. They are very confident from their words, and when a girl meet him the first time, he tries very hard to impress him with confidence by showing his personality and sexy looks.
He just trying to make you fool by impressing you with false promises, commitment, and showing you how he good and you are very lucky to meet him.
They are a smooth talker and impress you from the very first meet, he flirts you because he knows very well how to impress a girl and try to cheat a girl.
Always ready to prioritize sex:
A man who is always ready to give you a response every time and for everything but a player hardly replies to you about anything except sex-related topic.
He is never interested to go out for dinner or meal and he disappears lots of days or weeks without in your knowledge. Most of the time when he comes back, call you to meet him in their house or text you during the night to meet up.
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So in summary, keep these points in your minds while dating and staring relationship with a man.
1. He Overload Compliment to you.
2. He Tries to going outside most if there is sex involved.
3. He never shares his plan and future goals with you.
4. He never invites you to meet his family.
5. He avoids answering the question asked by you.
6. He never knows you more about him.
7. He tells you lies.
8. He is never interested to know more about you.
9. He suddenly disappears without informing you.
10. He avoids spending holidays with you.
11. Trying to impress you with confidence.
12. Always ready to prioritize sex.